After quitting/ Of a young person's room for life

 I watched a short piece of someone giving a speech to young men in military service, and felt that I ought to write what I earlier today thought of some news picture of a woman who had been in military service, even though such is not traditional. 

Girls' view of life is that if one is to get children one ought to have the skills etc needed for pregnancy and giving birth to go well. But there are not surely good enough advices for that, so one needs to pay attention to things and skills that might help pregnancy, giving birth and having women's strenghts in the family or group of nearest people. And so one learns some wisdom of life, including wisdom of feelings, other ordinary skills and something about communication and learning. 

Boys on the other hand tend to think that it is enough if one has some job, some place in the society, occasional family life, and think that army or military service can be one part of such a place. But in army, at least after having killed or harmed someone or after some failure, it is for most not good to be the most straightforward supporter of some outrageous action or the clearly opposing one, and so most men prefer things just continuing somehow like civiliced wisdom suggests one ought to do. 

And so in the army things just seem to go somehow along the old tracks, somehow ashtray and none seems to care, and it may be difficult to correct, since such has often been a civilian point of view surely wishing well in the world, and taken care of by professions, culture's values and by women's personal wisdom of life. 

So what if women are in the army too like men, cultures mixed and lost some of their wise sides and so professionals too maybe without a wise enough support? Generally in a situation in which things seem to be going ashtray, it is good to use one's own common sense: this we were doing, this at least on this basic level seems to work out well from the point of view of my common sense like picture of the world, and similarly try too see what the common sense of others around says too. And since some things clearly are not fully right, not go with full might with everything, but kind of try to with common sense get life work out ok in the world. Personal wisdom of life one can so have and it helps in life in this and that like some extra wisdoms that is not evenly spread among the group. 

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In goals or other choices concernin dying or killing, one should take into account that life after death exists, and conyinues in many cases largely from the same situatiln with just something having been erased or gone differently, and so suivide by great damage does not seem good option, but instead one ought to make wise good life chouces, even if outrageously one's own ways like for example dream job even if it is in a new nice place where one knows none.