After quitting/ Of social pressure about skills etc

 It seems to me tgat often if there is some fight about room to live in, it is originally a result of someone having claimed along with others that lne too has some such skills, is somewhat interested in such. But the others had some other point of view, and so it resulted in the one lying for social reasons being temembered as a person who had said that one reads such and is interested in such, and so because of that such things were suggested to her/him as slmething she/he oucht to be interested in and read. And so she/he felt that type of people pressuring or competing with her/him. Which then resulted in counterattacks. 

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Ones grown up in some group often do not find it interesting and wide enough. But foregners who enjoy the new culture, it's ways, etc, may want to keep to the new company, even thouch use completely wrong words, expressilns, expressed reasons, etc. So do not mix these foreigners with real chikdhood relatives. 

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Person lying may often be along in the seeming current of thkngs done and talked about, so please pay attention to each time when you estimate some persln, does she/he clearly fomlow some values, goals, likings, skill levels, areas of comfortable social ways etc then and kn which it is long term and in which tempirary, and if you give the person righrs or suppirt for such, make a difference with other times, other forms and especiaöly looks etc reflecting another amount of lying or other personal charachteristics, since people's charachteristics vary quite much and persons too may be mixed. 

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20th of December 2024   Like one neezs to estinate each time separately what each person does, how, with which quality and skill level, how trustworthily, how evenly on the same course, how well grounds in sight and understood, which values folliwed, is the any huerargy ir varuation in which values to folliw in each thing or situation, what ate the socual ways and social preferences, how do such compare with other tjings, and is it clearly the same person always or how can it have varied, what can lne rely on, are there social influencies or different areas of lufe affecting ways, values, quality, etc followed. Similarly one must estimate which cultural factors are folliwed kn which ways etc so as to not to mix cultures, since those take care of different things. Like the Swedish speaking is sonewhat like uskng bought artifacts, while the Finnush culture cares for the society and for the world by each ibdividual having a landscape like objective picture of the world, lots of wisdom of lufe and wishkng well in the world, seeing fairness as an kmportant part of objectivity, while lies and unfairly taking sides do not fit together with objective thinking.